As humans, we are prone to having people dislike us with or without a valid reason. And today, I’ll be talking about why you shouldn’t give a fuck about haters. We live in a world with a population of about 7.9 billion people and believe me, there’s a great possibility that not everyone you meet will like you. You know what? That’s okay. Not everyone is able to recognize good things. While it’s ok for everyone not to like you, some people are just haters and would do anything to make your life miserable. Just before I talk about the reasons why you shouldn’t give a fuck about haters, below are some facts about haters.
Some facts about haters
1) Hater’s may be jealous of you
I’ve literally seen people hate on others because they feel that person is more brilliant, or just better off than they are. Sad but true. People might hate on you for different reasons but one of the most common reason why I have seen people hate on others is because they feel threatened by that person. Some people are only hating on you because they see you as a threat and this is one reason why you shouldn’t give a fuck about haters.
2) Haters hate seeing you happy
Someone once said they hate seeing a smile on a particular person’s face and I was shocked. Why in the world would you not want to see a smile on someone else’s face? Some of these haters are sad AF and they want every other person to end up in the same shoe.
They literally want everyone else to be just as sad as they are. So here’s what to do, do not let them get to you. Whenever you see that person who always seems to be out to get you, instead of being sad, put a smile on your face and let those haters know you are happy. Don’t let them ever get the joy of seeing you sad.
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3) Some are going through a lot and show their frustration by being mean and harsh on others.
Some of these haters are going through a lot and feel like being mean to others is a way out. Some people who are mean to you might not necessarily hate you but are going through a lot and show their frustration by being mean to others. And this is more reason why you should kill those haters with kindness!
Here’s why you shouldn’t give a fuck about haters
It can be hard to not give a fuck about haters tbh. I used to be so bothered when someone hated on me especially for no reason but the thing is everyone has haters. No one is loved by everyone and if you really truly, genuinely want to be happy, you need to ignore the haters. Steve Harvey from my favorite show Steve on Watch said that if someone hates on you, it’s a blog. But if you respond, it’s a press conference. Because by responding to a hater, you are giving attention to those who don’t deserve it.
An important reason why you shouldn’t give a fuck about haters because haters aren’t worth your attention. They are best left ignored. It’s impossible to not have at least one person that hates on you. But by responding to haters, you are telling them they are worth your time and attention whereas they are not. You shouldn’t care about haters. They aren’t paying your bills, they ain’t feeding you, they ain’t doing nothing for you so why the hell should you give them your attention? Absolutely not!
When haters are busy hating, do your best to ignore them and keep living your best life. Instead of focusing on hateful people and the negative vibe they give off, focus on you. Tell yourself how awesome you are. Tell yourself how much you are obsessed with you. Never waste your time wallowing in the bad energy haters give off and don’t let them ever get to you. If they aren’t team you, cut them off and get them out of your life ASAP.
Here’s why you should not give a fuck about haters. Haters will always hate tbh. But you are superior over their hatred because you have a choice when it comes to handling them and letting their negative attitude get to you. I don’t give a fuck about haters and you shouldn’t either. Caring and giving too much attention to the haters will only make you sad and that’s not a good way to practice self love. So ignore them. Let them keep hating. You keep smiling and living your best life. You couldn’t be bothered.
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